somehow the way the moon looks tonight mirrors the state of my heart. It's a beautiful crescent smile.
Oh reason not the need
Random musings, reflections on God's word, and other misc stuff
Thursday, November 15, 2007
Sunday, November 04, 2007
short whine
After reading about Jas's blog, I decided that okay, since right now I feel like saying something, I will.
I think I suffer from being too non-confrontational. If somebody steps on my toes or does things that undermines me I tend to just say nothing. And go home to brood about it. Or feel lousy about myself. I don't stand up for myself, especially even when I feel I am really being unreasonably undermined.
It's like, the moment somebody says or criticizes my work or undoes it, my first thought will be how bad or lousy I am or how incompetent I am. Even if later when I sit through, examine and think though the facts I find that I'd been doing things properly.
Low self-esteem. Oh well. Have to learn to get over it. And call a spade a spade when it matters. I know I can do it sometimes, depending on how important the thing I'm going to have to stand for is. No matter who it is. I think it's the last part that's the hardest. Proceed with caution.
Busy busy Saturdays and Sundays! Must avoid the "busy martha" syndrome...
Pray for my new job! Work starts tomoro! Ciao!
Jerry
I think I suffer from being too non-confrontational. If somebody steps on my toes or does things that undermines me I tend to just say nothing. And go home to brood about it. Or feel lousy about myself. I don't stand up for myself, especially even when I feel I am really being unreasonably undermined.
It's like, the moment somebody says or criticizes my work or undoes it, my first thought will be how bad or lousy I am or how incompetent I am. Even if later when I sit through, examine and think though the facts I find that I'd been doing things properly.
Low self-esteem. Oh well. Have to learn to get over it. And call a spade a spade when it matters. I know I can do it sometimes, depending on how important the thing I'm going to have to stand for is. No matter who it is. I think it's the last part that's the hardest. Proceed with caution.
Busy busy Saturdays and Sundays! Must avoid the "busy martha" syndrome...
Pray for my new job! Work starts tomoro! Ciao!
Jerry
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